Here in Western New York we are enjoying unseasonable spring like weather and the weekend is quickly approaching! Ahh, the freshness and renewing spirit of it all! And then it hits us, with the windows open, and all of winter's stash of clutter it is time to CLEAN!! Get rid of the dust and the cob webs, throw out the accumulated trash that is no one's treasures, vacuum, dust, sweep, mop, wash, fold, wipe, wipe, wipe, wipe... and sweat... Spring Cleaning in all it's glory. Many of us will be spending the weekend doing just that. Making everything look bright and shiney, crisp and clean.
How about other areas of our lives? Health and wellness? How is your relationship with yourself? Your children? Your husband/wife/significant other? How about your Romance department?
Spring is the time of the year to get twitterpated! Fall in love with someone, or someone again or maybe even yourself. There is no better time of the year to do so, I am pretty sure that it is in our biology, built right in there next to the need to breath, eat, and be sheltered. Spring time just brings out the amore in all of us! It's just like when that moon hits your eyes thing, you just.can't.duck.fast.enough!
Spring time is a great time to do Spring Cleaning on your relationships to help pave the way for a better mental health and better Romance. Over the course of the next 5 nights I will be bringing you tips to help you Spring Clean Your Love Life and get your Romance in Shape!
Without further A-do let's get you started!
- Let go of the baggage: Women in particular tend to be the worst at this one. It's almost like they wear their past hurts like a badge of courage for the whole world to see. I know, I know, I am generalizing here, but sit down with any woman who you have gained their trust from and they will tell you about every single past lover who has jilted them in anyway, shape or form. And they say elephants never forget! Ask a man who has done wrong by a woman, they know they will never live it down.
It's time to let go of all that past hurt. Learn the lesson it taught you, forget the hurt. If you look at it this way, your either still with the person who hurt you or you have let them go. If you are still with that person you very well may be doing irreversible damage to the relationship if you are hanging onto past hurts. And if you have let that person go then there is no need to hold onto the baggage anymore. Also, you are not letting yourself be free to feel again. Shutting off a part of yourself can keep you from fully feeling Romance. Just give yourself permission to let it all go and start fresh again!
All my love Lovies!
~Sherry
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